The temple was great. We got a lot of nice nods from the Chinese people so it made me feel better. The monk did a Buddhist blessing for the group and especially the kids. Malia's favorite spot was the water fountain with a waterfall. I think she would have stayed there all day. I guess water is her favorite and that explains why she liked the bath so much. The other thing she liked to do was light the incense. I was so nervous with her around the fire and lit incense sticks but a nice Chinese women helped to get hers lit (see the photo). It was such a cute moment.
The next spot was the Chen Family Museum or Gardens. It was very pretty and my dad loved seeing all of the wood carvings. I feel like I didn't see much because I started to lose Malia and myself. We tried the stroller, hip hammock, letting her walk, but I just think the lack of sleep caught up to her. It was a very pretty area and luckily mom helped with Malia and dad got photos.
So far it is going really well. She definitely is 2 and I think part is from that and some might still be the adjustment. We are working on getting her to go to my parents but so far she will still only let me carry her and if she is in the stroller I need to be in her line of sight. From an adoption standpoint I know this is a really great thing but a rest for my back and arms would also be appreciated. Things are going well. The other two families joined us today and we are at the tail end of this part of the adventure. Before you know it we will be home and back to the normal schedule.
Prayers going to your back - although it was so great to see a picture of you holding her at the Temple. It is so wonderful that she knows you are mama!
ReplyDeleteOh your back - I can only imagine! But it REALLY is a good thing that she is showing such a preference for you vs. being willing to be with anyone - but i know that you know that!
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"Michelle - Malia - Malia - I say hi"
What an amazing experience!
ReplyDeleteShelly, I love that Malia prefers you...she knows you're her mother. It's amazing how children can do that! And the aching back...welcome to motherhood :-)
Linda, I've given the staff the blog so they can keep up with all the stories, and I print and post them everyday for staff and families to read at school.
Everyone looks sooooo happy. The pictures are beautiful and Malia looks absolutely darling and perfect in every way!
Take care
Love to all
Jeanette
BTW...Shelly Miller says the squeaky shoes can only be found online in the US and they're expensive....might want to bring a few pair home :-)
ReplyDeleteI love her hair!
ReplyDeleteI'm glad it's going so well! When you get home get an Ergo carrier on-line. I carry Jia in it all the time and it works great - no back pain!
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